It’s a Girl

A couple of stories on CBC radio hit me this morning as I was driving to or from the off leash park.  One of them was an interview on The Current between Anna Maria Tramonti and Evan Grae Davis.  The interview shared some insights about the documentary, It’s a Girl.  Following, is the trailer…but, I also encourage you to listen to the interview linked above.  Today, in the west, we recognize Pregnancy & Infant Loss Remembrance Day…I can not help but feel overcome by the selective ‘gendercide’ that occurs daily on our planet.  This is yet another manifestation of ‘the bully’ that I wrote about just a few days ago.  These are the baby girls without faces…without names.  It is important that we inform ourselves of the implications of this.

Following…an exerpt from an interview published in Arizona Public Media PBS.

Story by Mark McLemore

September 21, 2012

Mark McLemore: What sorts of stories are you able to tell in this film?

Evan Grae Davis: It tells several different sides of the gendercide story, from a woman who admits to having taken the life of eight of her own daughters in the quest for a son. It tells the story of a family whose daughter was killed in a dowry related murder, so it shows that side of it as an adult woman being married into an arranged marriage. Her dowry was inadequate to please her husband’s family, then she had a daughter, they wanted a son and they ended up killing her. It tells the story of an Indian woman who fled her husband’s family to save her twin girl, her twin daughters from being forcibly aborted, and is today fighting a court battle to bring justice to her husband’s family for having broken this law against this sex determination testing.

It also captures a story about a girl that, a newborn baby girl that was abandoned in China and was picked up and adopted and raised by another family so it kind of shows the angle that there are people who don’t ascribe to this son preference, but do value girls and to the point that they would raise someone else’s child as their own.

[And we] tell the story of a young girl who was kidnapped from the front steps of her own home into a family who needed a bride for their son and so it captures that side of the human trafficking and the child bride kidnapping that occurs very commonly now in China. So it really tries to explore the issue from several of these different angles.

Mark McLemore: What were the biggest obstacles you encountered in trying to travel to these countries to tell this story?

Evan Grae Davis: One of the greatest obstacles was naturally finding people who were willing to share their story because clearly anyone who’s taking the life of their own child or who has participated in this practice of gendercide is going to be very reluctant to share about it, so I think the greatest challenge was just finding the stories, getting connected to them and then…and finding people willing to share them.

There’s a natural sensitivity, especially in China, of the danger of coming out, of publicizing your story. Our first concern obviously was the protection of those who were willing to share their story, not wanting to bring more trouble to them because they were willing to help us with the project so how do we protect their identity. How do we insure that their willingness to help doesn’t cause them a lot more trouble? So that was probably the biggest challenge we ran into.

Flaming June by Fredrick Lord Leighton 1830-1896

If the writing is honest it cannot be separated from the man who wrote it. Tennessee Williams

1 thought on “It’s a Girl

  1. I pressed “Like” although what you have presented here is not a likeable subject. I knew gendercide happened but didn’t realize to this extent. I am distressed and appalled by every aspect of this unbelievable situation yet feel helpless. Thank you Kathleen for sharing this – another world tragedy that we would rather not know about, but once we know we cannot ever forget…

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